Former Pittsburgh Anchor Says She Was a Revenge Porn Victim
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For years, you could watch Darieth Chisolm Anchor the news on WPXI in Pittsburgh.
It was not uncommon to see Chisolm's picture around the Burgh. But, there were other pictures that Chisolm did not want anyone in Pittsburgh or anywhere else to see.
Nude pictures and video.
Chisolm recently broke up with a boyfriend whom she had been living with in Jamaica. But the man was unwilling to let her go.
“I got threatening messages that he would kill me if I didn’t come back to the relationship,” Chisolm told the Pittsburgh City Paper. “He started threatening me, threatening my life.”
And when that didn’t work, the man began sending Chisolm a different kind of threatening messages. These messages contained nude photos and videos of her that the man had taken without her knowledge.
“He started sending me messages with photos and videos he had taken of me, and then he started creating memes with a bunch of lies and distortions and threatened to put that out on social media,” Chisolm says. “Obviously that left me very confused and angry and upset and alarmed.”
By March, the man had created a website where he posted the photos and videos. As a result, Chisolm shut down. She didn’t know where to turn.
“So, this is out there on the internet, and I’m somewhat of a celebrity and have spent 20-some years building a very successful career, and you can just imagine how embarrassing and ashamed and humiliated I felt by all of this,” Chisolm says. “I’ve been through probably one of the most embarrassing and extremely painful experiences anyone can ever experience.”
The Pittsburgh City Paper writes that Chisolm refused to remain silent. She decided to use her experience to help others and recently launched the 50 Shades of Silence campaign to bring attention to cyber bullying, revenge porn and sexual harassment. And she’s in the process of seeking both civil and criminal charges against her abuser.
“What I decided to do, after I picked myself up, is to not only share my story, but use my voice and my platform to really bring attention to this, because I am not alone,” Chisolm says. “I have heard, sadly, from so many people who are experiencing this. Many of them are still locked away in silence and shame, afraid to even tell others, let alone know what to do next.”
A 2014 report by the Cyber Civil Rights Initiative found that 1 in 10 intimate partners threaten an ex with non-consensual sharing of sexual images. According to the report, 60 percent of those who threaten to share non-consensual pornography carry out their threats, and 90 percent of reported “revenge porn” targets are women.
“My fight is long and hard. There is very little legislation on the books around these types of cyber, revenge-related crimes,” Chisolm says. “We’re calling for stricter enforcement for perpetrators and better protection for victims.”
In 2014, Pennsylvania passed legislation criminalizing revenge porn, but many states don’t have laws addressing the issue. And Chisolm says that many of the laws currently on the books don’t go far enough.
“Not all states carry some form of statute in their case law that can be used to support someone who is seeking some civil or criminal remedy, and even the ones that are on the books aren’t very strong — they lack teeth,” Chisolm says. “For the victim, this ruins their lives. It leaves you with no way to fight this. We’ve got to strengthen the laws. We’ve got to broaden the laws.”
The 50 Shades of Silence website provides information on resources victims can use to get help, including how to get illicit content removed, find an attorney familiar with these kinds of cases and access emotional support.
The full story at Pittsburgh City Paper
